If there is one thing that can sever even the closest friendship, it is by not forgiving someone. Not forgiving leads to seeing the worst in someone, which leads to bitterness, and by the time the heart mends and you realize that it is time to forgive...you may find that you can't remember what the friendship was like before.
Or perhaps you do remember, and if so, I have yet to learn that part of the lesson.
When you center your day around yourself, you may find that the attention you show yourself isn't as sustaining as the love you receive from others...
...and also, if you are pursing a friendship/relationship because of how it will make you feel, don't pursue it.
You can choose to be happy.
BUT, it's ok if you aren't always happy. Just don't dump that unhappiness on anyone else.
Thank you, I needed this reminder. It is very true, forgiveness is always important.
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